Dear Thanksgiving…
I don’t do very well with your forced expressions of cheer.
Perhaps some do, but I don’t.
Maybe it stems from me not wanting to be told how to act or live.
Sometimes I wonder if others feel the same way when it comes to certain holidays – like you and your Turkey and Pumpkin pie… Perhaps there are some who are like me that they feel as if they are subjected to a certain kind of feeling, or a certain kind of festive moment in time. It’s just a photograph – a still frame, we pause…and then we move on.
Let me clarify first, Dear Thanksgiving, it’s not that I don’t like you, it’s just that I don’t want to quantify my ability to give thanks on JUST one day. I love you, but I don’t love what you have become.
Here’s where I struggle with you, dear Thanksgiving…
They’ve put you on television…in commercials, in jingles, it’s become increasingly worse each year. As soon as they take down the Halloween decorations down they are putting yours

up…with the sound of Christmas carols. I fear that commercialization and buying STUFF for ourselves has largely overshadowed what you used to represent.
We’ve even begun to dash away from your “Thanksgiving table” in order to gobble up more “sweet deals” as retailers open their doors earlier and earlier. I’m just afraid, dear Thanksgiving, that we’ve begun to forget what being thankful is truly about. We are all consumers who are buying more and more things that we don’t need while racking up greater and greater debts. How does that equate to being “Thankful”?
I don’t wish to sound like a hypocrite, Dear Thanksgiving, but I too have indulged in this new creation of “Thanksgiving”.
It is extremely enticing and I see why we are all attracted to these offers…BUT are we losing ourselves in the process? Are we becoming blind to gratefulness as we over-indulge and binge on our riches?
It is so easy to forget about the plight of the rest of the world while we leave our warm homes and go out to find more stuff to fill it with. Are we good stewards with what God has given us? Am I a good steward? Or do I still have more to give…instead of take? Could it be that in the act of giving, I once again gain an identity in gratitude? Could it be that we can find our way back from self-indulgence?
Dear Thanksgiving, I want to be thankful for the right things in my life.
I don’t want to look back in twenty years and regret not spending more time with the people I love and not giving back when I had so much to give. I can’t change the world, but I can change how I live and how I act, and what I represent to my family, to my children.
Dear Thanksgiving, I miss you…I hope we can meet up again soon, perhaps it can become more than just a few hours on a Thursday gather around a table or during a football game. Perhaps, just perhaps I will place a piece of you in my pocket and in my heart and spread you around in my life every day…so that others might experience a tangible hope that we all need to get through this life. Perhaps, just perhaps as I do, Christ’s light might be seen so that I am less and He is more…then, I will have recaptured a true sense of what you really represent in our world.
Sincerely,
A Thanksgiving seeker.
P.S. I still like your Pumpkin Pie!


Sometimes we tend to dread this season of Christmas because we are so very busy. Don’t get me wrong, it is a wonderful thing that we do for people in our communities, but it does come at a cost. We can become jaded by what we do so much so that we lose sight of why we do it in the first place. Sometimes we lose out on precious opportunities because our noses are firmly planted to “the grind”.
It sounds preposterous to “take a break” during our busiest season, but step outside. Go get a cup of coffee. Do something for ten or fifteen minutes (even an hour if you can afford to) that gets you away from the noise and responsibilities. This is sometimes called “self-care”. It’s maintenance for the mind, soul, body. Breathe.

Are You Missing Out?
I get that we don’t want to experience what Paris has just horribly experienced. I understand that terrorists wish us harm. I know that we must protect our families and our communities…and we must. BUT, (and here’s where the “conflicted” part comes in”) does this mean we completely shut our borders and treat every man, woman and child as a suspect of terror? -No.
Some might argue that if we allow refugees (because of compassion) to come into our country, we will also allow terrorists in as well. This can be a valid point, and I get why some are calling for stiffer screenings, but we’re talking about hundreds of thousands of people… Others have argued that their state will flat out refuse to accept any refugees, citing that this is why/how the Paris attack happened.
Do I feel we should completely close our borders to those who wish to make a home within our free country? NO. Do I believe all who come to this country should follow the same procedure to citizenship through education and understanding? Yes.
What is their part to play in all of this?

It seems to me that the Kingdom of Heaven isn’t some far off place, but a place that has been closer than we could ever imagine. If we are to actively seek God’s kingdom here on earth and bring His Kingdom to others still lost in the world, then we have to make His Kingdom a priority in our lives EVERYDAY!


In the right context – Yes.

















