I once had an Officer, whom I greatly admire, tell me the secret to a successful, healthy corps. Do you wanna know what he said? Let’s see how long I can prolong the suspense… okay, suspense over: He told me that there is one crucial ingredient in any ministry that will either make or break you. That one crucial ingredient is this: Love.
(Someone cue the Beatles singing “All you need is love”)
Okay, that felt better!
Do we love those with whom we have been placed to lead?
This is important…pay attention!
(this may be the only question to truly consider today)
The Salvation Army ministry as a whole is an often transitory process. Officers come and go and this isn’t only difficult on the officers who are moved (sometimes faaaaaaaaaaar too quickly), but it is also difficult on the corps leadership as well as the soldiers and adherents. I might even go out on a limb to say that it has some longer lasting impacts on the corps ministries than it does on the officers who were farewelled and/or recently appointed there.
The dilemma then becomes how can we love something or someone that is transitory? How can love exist within this plain of ever shifting views, and an ever shifting leadership structure? Even within divisions and territories when leaderships leave and a new one enters the fray, the vision and plan set forth changes. So, that being said, how can we love within such an ever changing ministry dynamic?
I will be bold enough right here and now and say that we can’t.
We are not equipped to love so blindly at times, especially when we feel as if the last “move” was not God’s will but rather done politically or out of convenience sake for “the Army”. Pardon my cynicism here. Yes, we cannot love enough to replace the hurt and disappointment in our hearts sometimes.
We can’t love…by our own volition. That being said, we CAN love by the power of the Holy Spirit. Our own love, at times, might take time to become whole again. Our own love, might come along with us like our transported furniture does sometimes – bruised and broken (thanks movers!). Our own love will sometimes leave us defeated and lacking enough in the reserves to give anything more to our families, let alone others.
To the counselors out there – don’t tell us to pray more.
don’t tell us that maybe we need to read the Bible
don’t tell us that it’s just a “dry spell” spiritually
don’t tell us that we aren’t doing enough
Supercharge Your Ministry With Just One Word: LOVE…
No one ever said it was going to be easy.
In fact it may be the toughest thing you ever do.
It would be easier to operate from a place of “like” or even just “get the job done”, but it will never be as effective as it would if we fell in love with those we serve and lead. I mean the kind of love Jesus had for His disciples. I mean the kind of love the Apostle Paul writes about when he writes to Timothy and other leaders of the faith.
What would it take for us to love those we lead?
What would it take for our hurts to be replaced with healing?
For the broken pieces of our hearts to be put back together? (The cracks might still be visible for years to come) What would it take for our wounds to be transformed into healing scars? You see, these bruises might take time to fade. What would it take to supercharge our ministry? Perhaps even that word “supercharge” implies something that we’re not even comfortable with. Would it take a miracle of the heart? Would it take a transformational power only the Lord could provide?
Don’t Be Jaded!
It might be easy to become calloused, hardened and cynical.
No one human leadership entity is perfect. Things will be done to you that were not done with the “Lord’s will” in mind…But at the same time can we still be effective? Can we still lead with that one word – Love?
Can I be honest?
There are days when I simply don’t know.
There are days when I shake my head at decisions that have been made and can’t help but feel betrayed. That’s raw, but genuine.
The Truth Is:
I will never let the Army define who I am.
I serve the Lord first.
I know in whom I have believed!
The things of this world, even the systems in which we serve in are imperfect and sometimes people make mistakes. But you know what? I won’t let those mistakes, those “political” decisions, those wrongs that were never reconciled define who I am as a child of the King. Now don’t get me wrong, there are some very wonderful blessings along the way as well that we cannot over look either! Sometimes there are blessings in disguise and in order to discover them we have to place our all on the altar again and live by faith. (I know that this is very hard to do)
Can I supercharge my ministry with this one word – Love?
Not by own volition.
But I will through the power that strengthens me, which is the Holy Spirit.
Words of Wisdom Passed Down To Me:
* Don’t let anyone, other than the Lord, define who you are or give you a sense of self-worth.
* Be strong in your convictions and yet, don’t be so convinced of your own self-righteous need to be right all the time.
* Take time to listen and not just talk.
* Love those that God has given to you to lead…and when your love isn’t enough, ask for more love that can only be provided through His supernatural power!
* There is love in healing.
* Relationships are
important crucial to cultivate in a lifetime of ministry.
Something more for this army to ponder today…To God Be The Glory!
You said there is “love in healing”. I also believe there is healing in loving.
Love conquers all and God is love!